I'm often amazed at the lengths people go to act out revenge on each other. I came across a news article today about a woman in CA that drugged her soon to be ex husband, tied him to the bed, waited for him to wake up and then she cut off his penis and put it in the garbage disposal. Of course then she called 911 because she "didnt want him to die, just to suffer". Best part? When the officers asked her why she did it she replied: "He deserved it."
I've recently learned that things happen to you that you wish didn't...just like things happen to you that you couldn't have imagined, good or bad. It's what you choose to do with it that makes the difference. If you're true to yourself, don't sink to the lower levels of revenge and push through you'll come out on top. I'm sure there's a study somewhere about how much more energy it takes to come up with a plan to get back at someone then to just power through it and move on.
I, for one, am glad that I stick to my guns, remember who I am and push through. I'm not saying I haven't done some things I'm not proud of...or some things I shouldn't have that I am proud of. I've just learned that the girl I am is better and happier when she just worries about herself and not about the things those around her will have to answer for eventually.
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